
Currently this website lists churches within the Sutton, Cheam,
North Cheam and Carshalton areas. Click on the appropriate link
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We
have tried to provide sufficient information about each church to
make your job of visiting them easier . For instance, where possible,
we have included a photograph of the building exterior, a map, contact
details, service times and the style of service you might expect
to find there. If
the church has a website we have provided a link to it.
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been to church before, what could you expect?
Variation in different church services
If you have never been to church before it is easy to be confused
by all the different denominations and styles of worship.
Some churches are more traditional, tending to prefer long-established
methods of worship, which might include the singing of hymns, possibly
accompanied by an organ (or piano) - and some may use prayer books
and others still - incense. Many Anglican and Catholic churches
follow an order of service according to a lectionary or missal (a
kind of diary that lays out the contents of church service for the
year ahead), and you may be given a copy of that day's lectionary
extract in a service sheet when you enter the church.
Other churches adopt a different approach, replacing hymns with
modern worship songs and, instead of an organ, there may be a worship
band. The style of these meetings may be less formal. In the more
charismatic type of church you may see people lifting their hands
in worship, don't be put off by this - it's no different to putting
your hands together in prayer.
So many different styles of worship - ranging from conservative
to highly energetic. With such a variety, there is usually a church
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What
to expect during the church service
There are some things you can expect from almost any church
you go to.
Most church services include singing, praying and a talk (or sermon).
For the singing bit, you might have to
read from a hymnbook, a service-sheet, an overhead projector, or
in some of the better-equipped churches, a video projector with
the words controlled by computer. Some churches may like to sing
some verses more than once - so don't be fooled when you see what
appears to be a very short song projected on the screen before you.
You might find yourself singing the words two or three times or
more - think of it as a form of sung meditation. It helps
you focus on the words your singing, to take in their meaning.
Prayer can also vary from church to church. In some churches, one
person may read a prepared prayer from the front of the church with
everyone else closing their eyes and bowing their heads in silence.
The idea is that while someone else prays you should be listening
to what they're saying and echoing their prayer in your mind.
It is also quite common these days for churches to open-up the prayer
time to everyone present. Members of the congregation will offer
up prayers at will from where they sit. Depending on the church,
this will be one or two people, or several. The duration of these
times of open-prayer can vary too, from under a minute - to several
minutes. (Churches on occasion have special prayer meetings, although
they are usually on an evening, rather than a Sunday morning. During
these times - prayer can last for hours - even throughout the night!)
Sermons (or talks/homilies
as they are sometimes referred to), like everything else mentioned
so far, can come in different forms. Not only can the length vary
from a few minutes to over an hour - but the presentation style
and content can be so different too.
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Other
things you might find in a church service
Communion or eucharist
(also referred to as the " Lord's supper") The
night before Jesus died he had a final meal with his disciples.
As he broke some bread and passed it around, and then also some
wine, he asked that everyone who follows him should do the same
- as a way of remembering him. The broken bread is to represent
his broken body on the cross. The red wine - as a reminder of
his blood spilled our for us. [ Why
did Jesus die?...]
In recognition of Jesus' request, most churches* have times when
bread and wine is shared amongst the gathered congregation. You
should only take part in this ceremony if you are a believer of
Jesus**, so don't feel that you have to participate if you're
not ready. There are two more common ways of celebrating the time
of communion:
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Everyone who wishes to take communion
goes to the front of the church and receives the bread and
the wine from the minister / church leader
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You remain seated and the bread & wine
are brought to you, and is passed from person to person
*The Salvation Army does not include communion as part
of its services
**In the Roman Catholic church, you have to be a Roman Catholic
before you can take communion.
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 Lastly,
there is usually an offering. Most churches
have a time when they pass round a plate or collection bag for
donations from the congregation. This income can be essential
to keep the church running, but don't feel you have to give. If
you want to give out of genuine desire then that is excellent,
but we should never give because we feel people are watching us
or because we'd feel guilty if we didn't.
How much should you give? That again depends on your heart - and
your ability to pay. Pennies or pounds matter not. The Bible also
teaches that we should not boast of what we give away. So if you
do put some money in the bowl, don't draw attention to yourself
by waving huge wads of fifty pound notes in the air before you
drop them in!
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